Anita is in her fifties, married with 2 grown children. She was a stay at home mom taking care of her family and raising her children. When the children moved out, she found herself at a cross road, not knowing what to do next. Anita felt that there was other work for her to do in her life, another calling, but she was afraid to move forward, to make a decision.
During Past Life Regression she found herself as a middle aged, upper class woman. She wore a long heavy grey dress with a her full long skirt that touches the ground.
"I've also got a shawl, it is meant for warmth, not decoration … I am worried, I may be replaced, there were rumors…. I am getting old… losing my looks, my hair is greying ... Those horrible rumors ... I will lose my security … my position… people will talk about me."
Her name was Lady Frances. She has known about her husband's infidelity for a long time, but now it is open and everybody knows it too. They look down on her now. What a disgrace! People become uncomfortable around her. They gossip.
Her husband has made the decision to send her away. Far away. Her children won't be going with her. They will stay with the relatives.
"I pleaded with my husband to keep my children, but not for a long… I had to keep my dignity."
Lady Frances felt angered, belittled and betrayed, but she didn't have a choice. She has to obey.
It was an arranged marriage, an alliance, arranged by her father. They never loved or cared for each other. She brought him land, he gave her a title.
She left the next day. "…a long voyage over the sea."
… "I am so confused … so much noise, commotions, I wasn't used to it"
She liked her new place, small but tidy.
Lady Frances realized that her husband actually did her a favor.
"I am happy here. It's simple. …. I don't have to make too many decisions regarding other people.
... I feel relieved and content ... I dropped my title ….I am just Frances."
She made some new friends. Became part of the community.
Years later she died in her garden of heart attack. "I am glad ... Fells light and free…"
The lesson of Lady Frances's life was to have faith that things will turn out well.
"Don't be caught in your worries what might happen, have faith and courage…
If I had stayed with my husband I would have destroyed myself….. all this negativity I had in that life…. a choice was made for me by my husband, what I feared most turned out to be the best choice.…."
In that past life Lady Frances worried about others opinion so much that she didn't know who she really was. She regarded to herself as others saw her. All the choices were made for her, first by her father then her husband.
In her present life Anita has to make all the choices herself. But first of all she has to find out who she is and learn to know and love herself.
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The PLR Story of "Moira"
Moira came to see me for Past Life Regression with concerns regarding her marriage. Moira was a woman in her thirties with two children. She was unsatisfied for years and her husband wasn't even aware of her unhappiness.
There was a little connection with her husband and a lack of excitement in her marriage. Moira hated her husband's calm, somewhat cold and even temperament. She wanted out. Moira was hoping to find an explanation, or excuse for her strong resentment towards her husband.
During PLR she found herself as a 12 year old boy, Tommy, living with his mother. They didn't have many material things; however there was plenty of joy, laughs and love between them. Tommy's mother did everything to provide a loving and supportive environment for her son. He couldn't ask for a better mom. They were best friends and did everything together, exploring the outdoors and cleaning the house. They were so happy together. Most of all, they totally loved and adored each other.
Moira recognized her present husband as Tommy's mother. At the end of the session I asked Moira to feel Tommy's mother's love and to bring that unconditional love into her present life.
The lesson in Moira's life was to recognize love in any form.
When the session was over Moira felt very confused. She hoped to find something bad and nasty about the dynamic with her husband. Instead she was given a feeling of overwhelming love and peace.
"What will I do with this knowledge now? How will it fit into my life?" - she asked
Moira never left her marriage. Instead she started to see her husband in different light. What she perceived as coldness become acceptance and space. The lack of excitement turned into quiet tenderness.
I checked with her three years later. They had a baby girl.
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